5 movie heroes from whom you should take an example. They’re not just the positive ones

Do you want to be on the wave of success and bathe in the rays of glory? But there are always hundreds of excuses to postpone it until tomorrow? Or do you doubt yourself so much that you sink at the sight of even a simple work task?

No, you’re not a loser. You’re just not motivated enough and you’re using your time and energy counterproductively. But here’s the good news. All of this can be learned, especially if you once again review cult movies and TV series.

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Pay attention to the five movie heroes from whom you should take an example. They include both women and men, as well as a couple of not very positive characters. But all of them are united by persistence in achieving their goals, belief in themselves and their idea, effective work and motivation that never disappears.

Perhaps it is worth adopting some of their methods of solving problems and influencing people.

Kevin Lomax, “The Devil’s Advocate” (1997)

The first on our list is a young and ambitious lawyer Kevin Lomax, the role played by Keanu Reeves. His trick is that Kevin has gained fame as a specialist who has not lost a single case. This he won the attention of Lucifer himself, hiding under the simple guise of John Milton. The father of evil invites the lawyer to work in his company, which begins the story of his career rise.

What helps Kevin achieve success? His ambition, confidence, scrupulous approach to each client and accurate assessment of people’s psychological characteristics. Lomax’s pluses are charisma and charm, hard work and the ability to quickly assess the details that pop up during the trial. However, in the finale Kevin could have acted as usual, but in the end he turns on the previously dormant quality – conscience. And Lomax is fully aware of the consequences of his decisions for both himself and his family. Great motivation for a lot of people.

Morpheus, The Matrix Trilogy (1999-2003)

No, we’re not taking Morpheus from the fourth installment, Resurrection. We are more interested in the guru from the classic Wachowski trilogy. It was he who became the driving force of all the movies, step by step leading the Chosen One to the ultimate goal. After all, Morpheus is the one who knows how to persuade. Remember how calmly he offered Neo two pills. He didn’t even flinch at his glasses. Morpheus knew Thomas Anderson would make the right choice.

In fact, Morpheus, if you look at him more closely, is more striking than the Chosen One. Neo’s teacher is a true leader, strong and unwavering. But at the same time he is able to motivate his team so much that they are ready to go where they are told and ask no questions. And it doesn’t matter that there are difficulties, evil machines and Agent Smith waiting for them.

Morpheus always reveals his cards at the right time and gives everyone complete freedom of choice. Yes, the guru before Neo appeared often made mistakes, choosing the wrong Chosen Ones, but he never strayed from his chosen path. Faith in himself and his people – take note of this valuable quality.

Sam’s main motivation was unwavering faith in his master and friendship. They helped the hobbit to overcome all the difficulties and vicissitudes of the trek, which lasted more than half a year. And if Frodo had listened more attentively to the experienced Sam, who had an amazing intuition, he would certainly not have fallen into the clutches of the spider Shelob. And, of course, he would have saved time on the journey by rejecting Gollum’s option to go through the Dead Swamps. Everyone should have a loyal and wise friend like Sam.

Sarah Connor is also an example of a wise and forgiving mother who will protect her child at all costs. She doesn’t coddle John, though she fears his friendship with the reprogrammed T-800 terminator. Nevertheless, Sarah realizes that this machine seriously cares for her son like a real father. And the woman temporarily retreats in the battle for John’s attention and love. A mom who gives freedom of choice, but always stands by her child’s interests and is ready to help at the first call – what’s not a role model?

Daenerys Targaryen, Game of Thrones series (2011-2019)

Yes, the mother of dragons did not have much luck with men. But her character initially read a real steely determination. First she fought for her personal freedom, then for her husband’s life and her own, then for the lives of the dragons, and finally for the Iron Throne. Dany’s entire life is one continuous battle in which she has been abandoned, betrayed, and deceived by those closest and most trusted to her.

Everyone she’s ever loved has either left her (willingly or not), betrayed her, or deceived her. She was pure of heart, but day in and day out she had to fight for life, power and influence, either for the freedom of others or against prejudice. And the time taken to reach her goal was not that important to the Khaleesi. Quiet and regular steps are what bear fruit.

Who says women can’t command a fighting army? The example of the mother of dragons disproves all myths in this area. She even managed to temporarily end slavery in an entire realm where it was a staple of the culture.

Daenerys is a true queen who was followed by the call of her heart, not for money, gain, or fame. She could have ruled Westeros for a long time if not for the betrayal of the person closest to her. But the determination of the last Targaryen lady, her productivity and patience are to be envied.