How to live by Wu-wei: 10 principles to get everything without doing anything by force

Kira Feklisova

neurocoach

“Wu-wei is one of the key concepts of Taoist philosophy in ancient China. Literally, the word translates to ‘non-action’, but the meaning is not about lying on the couch, but the ability to synchronize with the flow and gently manage your life.”

According to the principle of Wu-wei, we should act in accordance with the Tao – the natural way of things. Above all, we should not forcefully control the course of events or fight the natural processes. Instead, we should move forward smoothly in accordance with the laws of nature.

What is the essence of Wu-wei?

The key point here is to realize that active action often leads to counteraction. If we try to get something by force, the world resists. And if we follow the Tao of the Wise Man, things work out easily and naturally.

For example, if you want someone to love you, there is no need to try to make a lasting impression and gain favor. It’s better to just be yourself and let feelings develop naturally, with minimal effort on your part.

The same goes for other areas of life. Instead of trying to succeed by force, it is better to find your natural path and follow it.

The principle of Wu-wei first of all requires a deep understanding of the laws of nature and the movement of the Tao. It is not about passivity and inaction. Rather, it is about wisdom – the ability to see and utilize hidden possibilities instead of using brute force.

In accordance with Wu-wei, we learn to appreciate the present moment and not to rush things. Everything has its time – this is the basic principle. There is no need to try to force processes. Then we can achieve much more with minimal effort, acting in harmony with the natural course of things and living our unique lives.

In the Wu-wei philosophy, living your unique life effectively means the following.

  1. Accepting yourself as you are. Not trying to imitate other people or conform to someone else’s expectations. Being yourself and valuing your individuality.
  2. Following your purpose and calling. Finding that business and lifestyle that truly brings joy and a sense of harmony. Not being afraid to follow your own path, even if it is different from others.
  3. Live life here and now. Not to put off for later, but to appreciate every moment of your life, to live it consciously and fully.
  4. Following your inner nature and intuition instead of external rules and dogmas. To trust first of all yourself and your feelings when making decisions.
  5. Flexibility and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances while maintaining inner harmony.
  6. Absence of excessive expectations and attachments. Taking everything for granted, focusing on the present moment.

Thus, living one’s unique life in the concept of Wu-wei is about maximizing one’s personal potential and following one’s inner nature in harmony with the outer world.

If a person has an innate predisposition to a certain occupation, then, following his vocation and developing talents, he will achieve results that exceed all expectations. The work will be easy and bring joy.

The principle of Wu-wei implies searching for and realizing one’s unique purpose, not imitating others. It is the preservation and multiplication of all that is inherent in nature in you, not in someone else.

“The Tao of the Wise Man” is about finding an activity that gives you a sense of deep fulfillment and benefits the world. Then you can reach the pinnacle of excellence while living in harmony with yourself and others. By moving toward knowing one’s true self, feeling and understanding one’s own nature, one begins to live a more conscious and fulfilling life.

Your individuality and Wu-wei

Here are some examples of how you can manifest your individuality in life in accordance with the laws of Wu-wei.

  1. If you have a talent for music, don’t be afraid to express your thoughts and feelings in songs. Compose and perform what comes from the depths of your soul.
  2. If you are good at drawing, create paintings in your own unique style that reflect your unique vision of the world.
  3. If you’re a wordsmith, write stories or poems, sharing what’s in your heart.
  4. If you easily find a common language with people, you can find a vocation in the profession of psychologist, teacher, in which it is important to be able to empathize and understand others.
  5. If you like to cook, you can keep a cooking blog, sharing your favorite recipes.

When you recognize your talents and begin to follow them, your life will be filled with meaning. Work stops being a burden and becomes a source of inspiration. You feel needed and in demand.

However, not everyone can follow their inner nature. It is hindered by a restless mind. Even if we don’t take any action, our brain keeps on fussing all the time. It spins thoughts, makes plans, analyzes the past.

It is important to learn how to stop the internal dialog, return to silence and peace. Do not let the mind endlessly analyze and interpret. Just observe the course of thoughts without evaluation.

When the mind calms down, you will be better able to feel intuition and hear the voice of the soul. Inner wisdom does not come through frantic thinking, but in moments of quiet and contemplation.

How do you follow your inner nature and live according to the principle of Wu-wei?

The 10 principles of Wu-wei living

  1. First of all, practice self-observation and meditation. This will help you better understand yourself, your true desires and values. Do not suppress emotions, but accept them.
  2. Trust your intuition. If a decision feels right, even if you can’t logically explain it, it may be worth following that feeling.
  3. Avoid excessive control and analysis. Excessive self-control interferes with the natural manifestation of your essence. Allow yourself spontaneity.
  4. Don’t be afraid to show uniqueness. There is no need to adjust to other people’s expectations. Allow your individuality to freely manifest as it is.
  5. Choose what brings you joy. Do what you love to do, socialize with nice people. Do everything that fills your life with meaning.
  6. Live in harmony with nature. Spend more time outdoors, admire the beauty of the world, get inspiration.
  7. Act decisively and persistently in your chosen direction, but remain flexible. Do not cling to ineffective approaches, combine the firmness of the strategic goal and softness of its tactical achievement. Correct the path if it leads to a dead end.
  8. Live in harmony with your values and conscience, not for the sake of external ambitions, imposed goals and the approval of others. Then your actions will bring joy and satisfaction even in the face of failure.
  9. Remember that the path to the goal is often as important as the goal itself. Enjoy the process of movement, creative search, enjoy the process of life itself.
  10. Develop harmoniously and comprehensively, do not limit yourself to a narrow specialization. Expand your knowledge, skills, opportunities. Become a multifaceted, interesting personality.

Wu-wei in modern life

To comprehend Wu-wei, it is not necessary to move high into the mountains or meditate in temples for years. Lao Tzu wrote that the realization of this concept is possible in ordinary life.

As soon as you start working with your inner self in accordance with the laws of nature rather than going against them, you will reach the necessary level of personal development. Then you will not waste your energy and strength in vain, atomizing and exhausting yourself. You will learn to work according to the principle of minimum effort – to follow the natural flow of life, to use the tailwind, to save resources.

When you understand your purpose and begin to follow it, many things will come easily and joyfully. You will find inner harmony and balance, stop floundering in search of yourself. Life will become clear, purposeful and meaningful.

The Wu-wei principle is about the here-and-now

When you eat, for example, and concentrate fully on food, savoring its flavor and aroma without distraction, this is the process in which the Wu-wei principle is expressed. Or, when you work passionately, immersed in your work, dissolved in the creative flow – you also follow the natural course of things with minimal effort. It’s a state of total engagement in the present moment. You are total where you are.

The Wu-wei principle manifests when you admire a sunset without thinking about anything else. When you are dancing, giving yourself to the music. When you simply walk down the street, feeling every step.

Life itself is Wu-wei until we start resisting, trying to control everything. We just have to relax. Let ourselves go with the flow of being. Practicing Wu-wei allows us to live each moment more fully and qualitatively, without missing a single precious second.

At the same time, a person living according to the principle of Wu-wei moves toward his goals consciously and purposefully, without undue haste. He does not act out of need or fear, but out of a deep understanding of what his soul really wants.

Such a person has inner peace and releases a huge amount of energy, which was previously wasted due to anxiety and internal conflicts. This energy can be channeled into creativity, self-development and helping others.

Following the principle of Wu-wei, you get rid of unnecessary burden of problems, learn to live here and now, find harmony with yourself and the world.

The principle of soft movement

If we turn to nature, we can see many beautiful examples of the wise principle of gentle, non-violent movement to the goal.

For example, the lotus flower, which grows from the mud, but remains pure and beautiful, able to blossom in any circumstances without losing its beauty and dignity. Or the water that flows around a stone and in time turns it into a smooth boulder. In this way a gentle but constant impact accomplishes more than impact.

A river makes no effort to flow along its course, trees grow and bear fruit without suffering, nature moves with the flow, not against it.

The principle of Wu-wei teaches flexibility, patience, the ability to yield in small things for the sake of victory in the main and live in accordance with the external and internal flow.

There are moments in everyone’s life that require active action, but if you need too much energy and strength, it will do you more harm than doing nothing.

For example, if you are facing difficulties in a relationship, you should not take drastic steps right away. Try to cool down first, regain your composure and look at the situation from the outside. You could seem one thing, and in fact everything is different. The problem will resolve itself, if you just give it time and do not interfere actively.

If you feel a decline in energy at work, do not burden yourself even more in an attempt to compensate. It is better to pause, rest, gain energy. You will find that once you recover, your productivity will increase naturally.

Thus, the principle of Wu-wei tells us that sometimes it is wisest not to act, but to let the situation resolve itself. This will save you energy and nerves.

5 Wu-wei rules for modern life

1. Live in the present

First of all, fully immerse yourself in the present moment, without distractions from the past and future. Enjoy every second, every inhale and exhale. Accept reality as it is, without evaluations. Accept the inevitable and don’t waste energy on resistance.

2. Act spontaneously

Refuse to over-plan. Trust your intuition and improvise, adjusting to the circumstances. Follow the inner impulse of your heart rather than the cold calculation of your mind. Be flexible and open to new things.

3. Be flexible

Get rid of inflexible ideas about how things should be. Adapt easily to changing situations. Meet challenges with an open mind rather than resistance. Learn from mistakes rather than clinging to pride.

4. Follow your nature

Be honest with yourself. Do what brings true joy to you and benefit to the world. Do not suppress your desires, talents, vocation. Unleash your potential, realize your purpose.

5. Trust the process

Let go of control over every step. Let life flow naturally, trust its wisdom. The universe knows better than we do what is necessary. Let go of fears and doubts. All things take their own course.

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