How to propose a girl to marry: 25 original ways, ideas

Proposing marriage is an important step that requires thorough preparation. Surely every man wants his beloved to remember this moment for the rest of her life. A perfect proposal is not only romantic, but also a touch of creativity. Explore with an expert, what aspects are important to consider to organize an original holiday.

founder of event-agency SOUL by Mironova

“A marriage proposal is an exciting and responsible moment. I tell you how to create the atmosphere and surprise your beloved”.

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What we will tell about

Preparation for the proposal

Before the marriage proposal you need to prepare thoroughly. This day will be a significant moment in the lives of both partners. Careful preparation will help to create a memorable and special moment. What should you pay attention to first of all?

Choosing a ring

Before buying, you need to consider three important criteria: size, price and design. If your girlfriend wears a ring on her ring finger, sneakily take it to the store. The consultant will help you determine the right size. The ring should sit comfortably on the finger, so too dense options should not be bought.

Today in jewelry stores there is a huge number of jewelry for every budget. Engagement rings can be bought for 5 or 450 thousand rubles. The price is influenced by the type and sample of metal, the stone and its characteristics.

Often men prefer to buy a ring with a diamond. However, there are other options: pearls, colored stone and fianite. The latter is the most budget-friendly.

Also be sure to rely on the taste preferences of the beloved. The ring will be worn by the chosen one, and it should like her first of all. Pay attention to what kind of jewelry she prefers: minimalistic, with a large stone or classic. Another factor in choosing a design is the type of metal. Jewelry stores offer pieces made of gold, silver, platinum and palladium.

Choosing a place and time

Choosing the perfect place and time can be hard. This is a key criterion in organizing a proposal. The place should not just be beautiful, but meaningful to both of you. Think about where important moments in your relationship took place. Perhaps it is the place of the first meeting or date.

If the beloved prefers a secluded atmosphere, then you do not need to make a marriage proposal in crowded places. It is better to choose something more intimate: a session in a movie theater just for two or your home.

Also consider the time of year and the weather. In spring and summer, there are more opportunities for romantic proposals in nature, while in winter you can create a magical atmosphere with snow and holiday decorations.

The time of day also plays an important role. Think about when is the best time to propose. Usually men choose sunrise or sunset. This is the perfect moment to create a romantic atmosphere.

If you decide to propose outside the house, try to see the place in person beforehand. Check that nothing will interfere with your important moment. This way you will be more confident on the day of the proposal.

Think through the speech

The next step is to prepare your speech. Think about what you want to say to your beloved. The main thing is to speak frankly and sincerely about your feelings. For example, you can start with memories. Tell about the first meeting and important moments. Then share your dreams about your life together. And don’t forget to ask the most important question!

Prepare a “plan B.”

Bad weather or other unforeseen circumstances can completely ruin the holiday. But this won’t happen if you come up with a backup plan in advance. Readiness to adapt will help not to be confused and make the moment of the proposal perfect.

How to create a special atmosphere yourself?

You can create a special atmosphere on your own. Music, lighting and other details will help. I will tell you more about each of these moments.

Music at the proposal is very important. It will help to set the mood and immerse in a romantic atmosphere.
Prepare a playlist with songs that have special meaning for the two of you. If your budget allows, you can hire musicians. Have them play your favorite songs live.
You can use candles, lanterns or backlit ribbons as lighting. This will create a cozy and secluded atmosphere.
Decorate the place with a bouquet of flowers and scatter rose petals on the floor.
Place photos or items that remind you of important moments in your relationship.
You can organize a surprise appearance of friends and family members after the proposal. But make sure in advance that the beloved will appreciate such a surprise.

Is it worth turning to event-agencies?

Often the groom is frightened by such a large number of details and nuances. Many think about delegating the preparation to professionals – an agency for the organization of events. But even here there are some nuances.

Independent preparation for the proposal and the help of professional event-agencies can differ significantly in several aspects.

Budget. Working with agencies usually requires large financial investments. Independent preparation can cost much cheaper.
Spent time. Agencies take on most of the work. Independent preparation takes a significant amount of effort to plan and organize the event.
Professionalism. Event-agencies have experience and knowledge of how to create a flawless event. They can offer quality services that can not be done independently.
Access to resources. Professionals have a lot of contacts. They have access to a wide range of resources such as venues, decorations, musicians and photographers. It is much harder for individuals to get in touch with everyone.
Contacting an agency can reduce stress and responsibility. Professionals take care of organizing and coordinating the event. The groom, on the other hand, can exhale, choose a ring and prepare for the speech.

Original proposal ideas

Creating a truly romantic and original marriage proposal requires creativity. You also need to understand what is important to your beloved. I tell you how to propose to a girl. Be inspired and take on board.

1. Proposal on a trip. Organize a trip to a place your beloved has always dreamed of. Make a marriage proposal on the background of picturesque views. The girl will definitely remain delighted.

2. Night picnic. Arrange a walk under the open sky with your favorite treats. Make a proposal at the moment when your chosen one will be looking at the stars.

3. Balloon flight is an unusual and interesting option that will not leave the girl without impressions.

4. Create a box of memories. Collect in it your photos, screenshots of correspondence, personal belongings. At the bottom put a ring. Offer your beloved to open the box together.

5. Organize a flash mob with friends and family that will end with your proposal.

6. Commission an artist to paint a portrait of your couple with you kneeling and holding the ring. Present the painting as a proposal.

7. If your loved one loves to read, create a personalized book or comic book about your love story. The last page should definitely have the phrase “Marry Me” on it.

8. If you both love scuba diving, propose underwater while holding a waterproof ring box.

9. Make a video of your friends and family talking about your couple. End it with your monologue about your feelings and proposal.

10. Take a walk around the place where you first met or had a date. Propose by reminiscing about the beginning of your story.

11.Rent the entire auditorium of a movie theater. Take a knee after watching a movie. You can ask friends or co-workers for help with the organization. For example, bring out flowers, play a slow tune at the end of the movie.

12. Take a cooking class for two. For example, on making bento cakes. Write the phrase “Marry me” on the dessert. The proposal will turn out to be unexpected and original.

13. Agree on a joint photo shoot in a beautiful place. It can be a studio or a park. In the middle of the photo session, suddenly get down on one knee and make a proposal, capturing this moment on camera.

14. Air walk. Propose unexpectedly during a helicopter ride while the girl is looking over the city.

15. Handicrafts with your own hands. For example, you can make a candle. Watch tutorials and buy everything you need. Inside the candle leave the phrase “Marry me”.

16. Homemade quest. Create a puzzle game with tasks and clues. Have them lead to the grand prize – the ring and your proposal.

17. Create by yourself a florarium with a variety of plants. Hide the ring in the center of the composition. Present the florarium to your beloved. Hint that there is a surprise hidden in it.

18. Take a personalized dance workshop. At the appropriate moment, take out the box with the ring and make a marriage proposal.

19. Write a poem that reflects your feelings and important moments of the relationship. Try to make it sincere and romantic.

20. Order a fortune cookie from a pastry chef. Ask him to write a note “You are waiting for a proposal”. When the girl opens the cookie and reads the message, get down on your knee and present the ring.

Traditional proposal ideas

Traditional marriage proposals often include classic elements and gestures that symbolize love and commitment. Here are a few options.

1. Getting down on your knee is one of the most classic and romantic ways to propose. This moment can be planned anywhere: in a secluded place in nature, a cozy corner of your home, a restaurant or even on a busy city street.

The main thing is to create an atmosphere that suits such an important event. Make sure you choose the right moment to make your beloved feel comfortable and happy.

2. Romantic dinner by candlelight is a win-win classic. It can be organized both in an exquisite restaurant and at home. During dinner, take your beloved by the hand and tell her how much she means to you. At the end, make a proposal.

3. You can share this important moment with the closest people. Gather family members together for a celebration. When everyone sits down at the same table, unexpectedly make a marriage proposal to your beloved.

4. The holiday proposal is another classic. Your girlfriend probably won’t even realize that you plan to give her a ring. Usually the holidays are already filled with a joyful atmosphere. Choose a special date: February 14, New Year’s Eve, Christmas, or her birthday. The first option is the most universal.

February 14 itself already symbolizes love and romance. You can start the morning with small surprises – breakfast in bed, a bouquet of her favorite flowers or a card with warm words. In the evening, have a dinner party. When you’re both feeling particularly happy, pull out the ring and pop the question.

New Year’s Eve and Christmas are filled with family warmth and comfort. These holidays would also be the perfect time to propose. For example, you can take a romantic walk around the decorated city, and in the most picturesque place get down on one knee. Another option is to propose to the sound of the chimes.

A birthday is a day when your soulmate will feel especially important and loved. It is also the perfect moment to propose, adding another unforgettable event to the joyful emotions.

5. Surprise in a box. Give a gift with a ring hidden inside. This is a great way to propose marriage while adding an element of surprise.

Think about what kind of gift to put in the box to hide the ring. It could be something symbolic, related to your relationship, or just a cute gift that will bring a smile. For example, a soft toy, a book, or even something made with your own hands.The most important thing is to hide the ring well enough.

Next, decorate the box with gift wrap and a beautiful ribbon. You can also add a small card with warm words. It will complement the festive mood.

Do not forget to create the right atmosphere. It can be a romantic dinner, a walk or a cozy evening at home. When your sweetheart finds the ring, get down on one knee and propose marriage to her.

These traditions can vary depending on culture and personal preference. But they remain popular because of their simplicity and symbolic significance.

The most important thing about the proposal is its sincerity and how it reflects your love with your chosen one. Think about what makes your relationship special. Perhaps it’s shared memories, favorite places, or small traditions that are important to just the two of you.

Be sure to add these elements to your marriage proposal. This way it will be filled with personal meaning and significance, and your sweetheart will be delighted.

Don’t forget that the proposal is a reflection of both of you. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings and speak from the heart. It is this sincerity that makes the moment truly unforgettable. The girl will definitely appreciate your openness and desire to show how much she means to you.

Proposal – this is not a formality. With it you express your desire to spend the rest of your life together with the person you love. Let your gesture be sincere, warm and filled with tenderness.